Tuesday, 11 September 2012

"HERO"

The Apple dictionary attached to this computer defines 'hero' as a noun meaning "a person, typically a man, who is admired or idealised for courage, outstanding achievements, or noble qualities."
I was going to object to the sexist nature of this definition but then realised that there is a feminine term for this word so that would explain the gender reference.
But, who do I see as a hero?
I believe that Jim Stynes was truly a hero. He was admired by many, he showed definite courage in the face of adversity, he achieved a great deal in his lifetime and he showed 'noble qualities' in the way he was able to stay so positive when his whole world was in dire straits.
I recently read Anh Do's autobiography and I think he too was a 'hero'. He is able to look at the many tough times he and his family faced with laughter and humour. He has risen above his years of poverty and faced life with amazing resilience and a determination to succeed.
I think my Mum is a hero, in the feminine form of course! After raising ten children, two of whom have intellectual disabilities of some form or another, she is now bringing up two teenage grandsons whilst also living with a husband whose memory is slowly deteriorating. We all know that she does it tough! Some weeks I'm sure she is ready to throw in the towel but she is made of stronger stuff than that. She still manages to be there for us if we need her! She still manages to discipline her grandsons who are just beginning to show their teenage rebellious natures. She still manages to run a well-managed household. She can still have a laugh with us all. And she is always able to let us know in a million ways that she loves us no matter what! A true 'hero'.

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