Monday, 10 September 2012

"BLACK AND WHITE"

Nothing is just 'black and white'! Life and death are not that simple!
Death doesn't just mean that someone is gone from your life! Firstly, there is the details of their lives to sort out...bank details, death certificates, cause of death, superannuation, car payments, phone bills, etc, etc, etc. Then there is the ripple effect that their departure causes...emotional instability, inconsolable grief, months/years missing from some of our lives, heartache and, in some cases, lives changed forever.
Life is not 'black and white' either!
Relationships are never simple. They take consideration, compensation, give and take and commitment. They need nurturing to make them 'fit' both parties. I don't think any of us is perfect so a good relationship takes tolerance and a preparedness to accept the failings of the other party. However, there is also a need to listen to the needs and desires of your partner and to act accordingly and with respect.
Life should be colourful! It should be filled with the people you love and with happy times together! Nothing is just 'black and white".

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